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Successes - Battered Women and Their Children
The crucial work that 1736 Family Crisis Center undertakes
with the support of community friends, funders, and volunteers can immeasurably
enrich and improve the lives of women and children fleeing violence at
home.
This is cause for celebration, especially in our changing, uncertain world.
One family's journey from violence into hope
Battered women fleeing violent partners who do not choose
to enroll in shelter care often require a variety of assistance to keep
safe and off the streets. So it was with Elena*, a 36-year-old mother
of three who reached 1736 Family Crisis Center's Los Angeles community
service center three months after leaving an abusive 20-year marriage.
A 1736 Family Crisis Center intake specialist first talked with Elena
about the challenges she and her children faced. She then referred Elena
to a 1736 Family Crisis Center case manager. He conducted a thorough assessment
of the family's needs and provided referrals to meet specific areas
of concern.
For instance, Elena turned to our welfare-to-work program to get help
to find a job. She and her two adolescent sons also began seeing 1736
Family Crisis Center counselors on an outpatient basis. Elena worked to
improve her self-image and to heal from years of terror and turmoil. Her
sons began the task of overcoming damage resulting from both witnessing
and directly experiencing their father's beatings. All received information
about domestic violence and the harm it causes, as well as the healthy
behaviors they could embrace to create violence-free lives.
Elena and her sons made steady progress on their treatment goals and transitioned
from individual into family counseling. Here, Elena's older teenage
daughter joined them to explore and develop better ways of communicating
and interacting with each other. Family counseling also gave them the
opportunity to collectively address how domestic violence had affected
their lives as individuals and as a family.
As Elena gained self-esteem, she was referred to and began attending parenting
and ESL classes. Now she has a job she enjoys and continues to benefit
from ongoing support provided by her 1736 Family Crisis Center job counselor.
During the holidays, Elena and her family "shopped" for gifts
at a 1736 Family Crisis Center holiday store. Community supporters helped
stock the site with toys and games, clothing, sports equipment, cosmetics
and bath items, CDs and radios, and a multitude of other items designed
to appeal to people of every age.
Elena's daughter is now preparing to go to college, reflecting the
more promising future all family members can enjoy today thanks
to the support of caring 1736 Family Crisis Center donors, volunteers,
and friends.
*Specific identifying information has been changed to protect the
family
More successes
For many battered women, a shelter stay represents the
crucial first step toward a safer, more promising life. Some residents
of 1736 Family Crisis Center's domestic violence shelters describe their
experience here:
"My shelter stay gave me time to evaluate who I was and what my needs
were, and to develop a productive plan for the future."
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"The staff was so supportive and helpful with all the legal and emotional
turmoil I've been going through. They have encouraged me, directed me,
and validated me, my feelings, and my needs. I know I am a stronger person
because of them."
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"The shelter program has helped me overcome things in my life I've
carried around for years. I have been blessed to have come into contact
with such a great group of people who listen and hear you when you speak
and allow you to just heal. I am a new person."
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"The program helped me recognize my value as a woman, define my dreams,
and develop the trust that I can realize them."
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"Shelter care saved me; if it wasn't for 1736, I don't know where
I'd be now."
*Names are changed to protect client confidentiality
How we can help
The challenges are great, but 1736 Family Crisis Center has developed
a range of intensive specialized services that have proven effective in
helping battered women and their children turn their lives around.
This includes emergency and up to two years of nurturing shelter for women
and their children, girls and boys prenatal through age 17. Shelters are
located at confidential sites throughout Los Angeles.
Our community service centers offer counseling
for children, teens, and adults not requiring immediate shelter. We also
provide job training, search, and placement services for abused women
on welfare residing in our shelters or in the community and other key
aid.
Our 24-hour domestic violence hotlines offer immediate help and referrals.
You can reach us now at:
(213) 745-6434
(213) 222-1237
(310) 370-5902(562) 388-7652
For more information, click here.
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